Is. Sandi Ciarochi, resident of DeSoto, President of Duncanville’s Sister Cities Commission, believes she is among the sane people who deceive everyone with lies and suppresses the dialogue; she instructs Duncanville’s Mayor and City Manager to behave in the same way, and considers those who seek the truth through dialogue mentally sick.
Despite the fact that I invited Ms. Sandi Ciarochi for ten years to join my Sister Cities Commission meetings attended by former Duncanville Mayor Glenn Repp and many citizens of Duncanville, and inviting her on the trips to Monasterolo di Savigliano, she never came, but instead said many slandering lies about me.
In 2006, Ms. Sandi Ciarochi falsely accused me of not allowing citizens of Duncanville to sign up for the visit to Monasterolo with Texas State Senator Jane Nelson, Glenn Repp’s nephew, and many others. The email and statements from Mayor Green and former Mayor Repp prove her false statements, her undermining of the Sister City, and how she slandered me (see the original documents proving Ms. Ciarochi false statements and slandering actions at goo.gl/4bLrtB). Ms. Ciarochi never took the responsibility to acknowledge the reality and truth by holding a meeting to stop the slander and the undermining of the Sister City program which is based on the mutual respect and dialogue between people of the same and different countries to promote a better understanding (as also stated by Sister Cities International created in 1956 by President Eisenhower). On 2/27/2018, I wrote to Ms. Ciarochi: goo.gl/Km9UVK.
There was no problem for Ms. Ciarochi’s husband, her son and her friends to be present at a meeting with her on this issue. They agreed to the meeting with Ms. Ciarochi and made themselves available. However, she never agreed to a meeting to take responsibility, to face reality and the truth.
Instead, she continued to undermine the Sister City Mission/Statute by going to Monasterolo to partner with the Mayor of Monasterolo di Savigliano, Mr. Marco Cavaglià, in making private, secret agreements, hidden from the citizens.
The following is an email Ms. Sandi Ciarochi, President of Duncanville’s Sister Cities Commission who lives in DeSoto sent to Duncanville’s Mayor Green and City Manager Hugman instructing them how to conduct a dishonest behavior during our meeting. Ms. Ciarochi’s email was among the 600 emails provided officially on December 12, 2017 by the City of Duncanville upon my Request for Public information from December 1, 2015 to November 28, 2017, related to the Sister Cities Duncanville and Monasterolo di Savigliano.
To clarify her confusion about sane and mentally sick people I asked Ms. Ciarochi the following questions:
“Sandi, Do you believe policemen, lawyers, judges, writers, teachers and anyone who ask questions as I do to unveil lies, and unethical, dishonest behavior, and make the truth, justice and honesty emerge is mentally sick and you believe to be the person sane in writing the following email to the Duncanville’s Mayor?”
“Sandi, Do you consider yourself as part of a sane group of people by writing your email below sent to Duncanville Mayor David Green and City Manager Kevin Hugman revealing your behavior to undermine an honest, sincere, respectful dialogue by using lies to deceive the world, gain power for your personal agenda, and blocking freedom of speech and transparency to impose your rules?”
See Ms. Ciarochi’s email to the Mayor in “Italic Monotype Corsiva font” and Crosetto’s comments below in between ***>his comment<***.
Subject: Fri meet with Dario
Date: Thursday, August 3, 2017 5:18:14 AM
David you need to keep your composure.
***> What title and arguments do you have to tell Duncanville’s Mayor to keep his composure? Are you referring to the event where Mayor Green did not keep his composure as in 2012 when he asked the police to arrest during a City Council meeting a council member when he would not stop talking immediately after ordered to do so?<***
You need to set a timer and tell him you squeezed him in but you have a pressing city matter that has to be addressed before the weekend.
***> The Mayor set 30 minutes for our meeting. Why did you ask Mayor Green to lie or find excuses when not necessary? Is this part of your way of life, lying even when unnecessary? Do you consider this to be the behavior of a sane person or a mentally sick person?
You need to have your secretary buzz you after he was there for 10 minutes and then to interrupt you physically in 15 min and you need to stand up and tell Dario that you were glad to see him and wish him well with his projects. And ask your secretary to walk him out.
***> Is this the respectful behavior you teach young people here and abroad describing how a public office works in the U.S. where the Mayor is instructing City employees to circumvent the rights of citizens to be treated fairly, respectfully, addressing with sincerity and honesty a pro-blem with the intention to resolve it? It seems you are instructing Mayor Green to be deceitful, using compliments to back off from his commitment of a 30-minute meeting and you give the picture abroad that City employees in the U.S. will partner with their Mayor to act deceitfully to turn an official meeting into a farce, a show, to deny their first amendment right. Practically showing how corruption works in a U.S. public office where not only one but many employees are partners to a deceitful action. Are you the best person to represent U.S. values abroad?<***
You need to tell him that his eloquent presentation on July 18th was his interview. That the Council felt that the history he presented to them was adequate enough for them to make a decision And that they considered that his interview. They gave him more time and consideration than anyone else.
***> On 7/18/2017, in a briefing room, before the City Council meeting, Councilwomen Johnette Jameson asked me: “Why did you choose to live in DeSoto?” I answered in 34 seconds, explaining that I came here in 1991 to work at the Superconducting Super Collider project and I bought a house not far from my work-office. If my presentation was adequate enough for them to make a decision, what was the reason for them to reject my application? This was not an adequate interview. I asked repeatedly to be officially interviewed like Marion Duhon was for more than 20 minutes, but I did not receive an equal, fair treatment and opportunity.<***
Every time he brings up his achievements, you wish him well. But raise your hand as in a stop sign and tell him you are aware of them
***> Is this a respectful behavior to teach the Mayor to disregard a priori anything I would say? granting a farcical meeting, a show to fulfill a bureaucratic need but with a preconceived idea. Note the detail of telling the Mayor to raise his hand… <***
Tell him thank you for his past service And wish him well. And stand up!
***> If my past service is valuable for what reason are you undermining a valuable service? Again, why are you provoking the Mayor to not keep his word of a 30-minute meeting and tell him just to make a farce, a show, with no intention to address the issue?<***
He will bring a stack of papers and ask him to leave them, if he wishes. You do not say what you are going to do with them
***> This again clearly reveals your belief of how a public office should work, just giving “lip service”. Accept everything, give the impression you are considering the material and the request, but with a preconceived idea and intention of trashing it soon without reading it.<***
Tell him thanks for his past service and wish him well. And stand up!
***> This is ridiculous to repeating to the Mayor a second time, like to a child, what he needs to do. Are you the best person as President of the Sister City Commission to represent the U.S. abroad?<***
Keep repeating the above. Even if it seems silly to you. Remember he is recording this and wants you to be reactive
***> Without refrain and respect for a Mayor, after having treated him as a child, asking him to do silly things, you explicitly tell him that what he is doing may seem silly. In fact, I asked for an official meeting and expressed my intentions in the past that the Sister Cities Commission meetings should take place in the Duncanville City briefing room equipped for broadcasting and recording just as the City Council meetings are broadcasted live. After all, a Sister City Program for the citizens representing the City of Duncanville abroad is very appropriate for informing the citizens about all meetings because it is representing them abroad and shows the culture and should be open to everyone.<***
I suggest you write out a script and stay with the script and repeat the script over and over. If needed, Kevin can interrupt and keep you on track but stay with the script.
***>Again, it is despicable that the President of the Sister Cities Commission exposes to the world her vision of democracy, and crushes and suppresses the fairness, respect, sincerity of the participants in a meet-ing a priori, having the deliberate intention to boycott a fair constructive dialogue with the goal to get to an understanding. Public debates in television, at City Hall, at Universities, contenders for a public office…, attempt to give the opposite image of the U.S. to the world where problems are addressed in a civilized manner, giving importance and consideration to find the most reasonable, fair solution respectful to everyone. The fact that you invite City Manager, Kevin Hugman, to suppress the democratic, civil, respectful procedure reveals your vision that not only the Mayor should act with corruption, but the entire system should support cor-ruption. Sandi, are you the best person to represent the values of the United States abroad as the President of the Sister Cities Commission?<***
Do the script first and then as he talks, repeat the script
***>Over and over again you make it clear how the respectful, civil dialogue which is the essence of the Sister City Mission/Statute should be suppressed by not letting me speak, not listening to any word, by telling Mayor Green to talk over my speech, to stand up and walk away…<***
Dario will try to wear you down. Be smarter.
***>One more time you are unable to refrain from telling the Mayor that I might be smarter than him<***
Remember that he is dangerous and will try to twist your words.
***>This is just pure slander. Provide me examples where I twisted the words of someone. On the contrary, I pay great attention to be precise; I am honest and responsible so that in the event someone is pointing out an inaccuracy that I said, I am ready to meet the person, address the issue, take responsibility, and if necessary correct the inaccuracy. You, instead, have said slandering, false accusations since 2006, and refuse to address them and take responsibility in a meeting with your husband, your son, your friend or anyone.<***
You may want to record the session.
***>This is hypocrisy, giving more spectacle of yourself in your email, not wanting me to record the meeting, but suggesting Mayor Green to record our meeting<***
He can alter a tape He could put it on utube. Remember he is a mentally sick person and vindictive.
***>Do you believe that policemen, lawyers, judges, writers, teachers and anyone who asks questions, as I do, to unveil lies, and reveal unethical, dishonest behavior, and make truth, justice and honesty emerge is mentally sick? And do you believe it is sane to write this email to Duncanville’s Mayor? Regarding the accusation that I am “vindictive”, I can prove I was not vindictive with you, because in 2006, after proving your accusations as lies – (that I had not welcomed citizens of Duncanville to take part in the trip to Monasterolo and that I had prevented anyone from joining, see Appendix B: goo.gl/4bLrtB), I let it go because i assumed you would give up undermining the Sister City Mission/Statute, but instead you worked in secret with Mr. Marco Cavaglià for ten years with the same old methods and lies and now you want to turn your private club into a public institution making a spectacle of yourself with your lies. Your email and behavior during these past years also reveal the reason why you do not accept a meeting in the presence of your husband, your son, or your friends to address the statements and false accusations in your emails in 2006. Apparently you were aware of your lies and you used them deliberately to implement your strategy to dishonestly twist, disrupt and crush the Sister City Mission/Statute based on the mutual respect and dialogue to turn it instead into a tool of power.<***
You might want to have a officer out in the waiting room by chance. ***>This reveals the true intention of your vision of the Sister City – to Mission/Statute that instead of promoting peace through mutual respect and the dialogue, you want to suppress all this by all means, even with force by calling on the police. In fact, I was the one who stood up the first after 30 minutes, thanked Mayor Green and City Manager Hugman for their time to answer my questions and was the first to exit the office. However, you might be pleased with the Mayor following your instructions because the show of the secretary who buzzed at the door 5 minutes before the 30 minutes was up, it occurred, although it was not necessary.<***
Remember Dario is out for Dario..not for the benefit of the sister city program.
***>I have ten years of testimonials that I am for the Sister City Mission/Statute to promote peace through mutual respect and the dialogue which is the basis for the understanding between people of the same and different countries. (See one document at goo.gl/So1KdQ summarizing these activities and a video https://youtu.be/wJwJg1_O6tM. See more details at the website www.duncanvillemonasterolo.com).
Sandi, you have a long history of facts and behavior which show you do not live up to the Mission/Statute of the Sister Cities, and this email from you dated August 3, 2017, reveals who you really are and you should realize you are not fit to bring your behavior as an example to young people from Duncanville and from Monasterolo di Savigliano. Young people should not learn these behaviors from you and these are not the values representing United States that should be exported abroad. Dario Crosetto<***
Sorry for the epistle, Sandi
Sent from my iPad
Using the names, privileges and advantages of public institutions to benefit the private club of Ms. Ciarochi and Mr. Cavaglià who do not comply with the rules and laws of a public institution needs to end.